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		<title>Amazon.com apparently yanks pedophile book</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p><strong>November 11, 2010<br />
By Dan Boniface<br />
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<p><a href="http://www.9news.com/rss/article.aspx?storyid=162873"><strong>9News.com</strong><br />
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<p>DENVER &#8211; A  controversial self-published book that offered advice to  pedophiles has  apparently been pulled from the website that was selling  it.</p>
<p>Amazon.com no longer had a listing for&#8230;</p>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>November 11, 2010<br />
By Dan Boniface<br />
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<p>DENVER &#8211; A  controversial self-published book that offered advice to  pedophiles has  apparently been pulled from the website that was selling  it.</p>
<p>Amazon.com no longer had a listing for &quot;The Pedophile&#8217;s  Guide to  Love and Pleasure: a Child-lover&#8217;s Code of Conduct&quot; on  Thursday.</p>
<p>A search of the site produced a link to Pueblo author Philip R.   Greaves II&#8217;s book, but the link now leads to a dead end. The listing   apparently has been deleted.</p>
<p>The online bookseller came under fire Wednesday when some of its customers threatened to boycott the site because of the book.</p>
<p>Amazon had issued the following statement Wednesday:</p>
<p>&quot;Amazon believes it is censorship not to sell certain books simply   because we or others believe their message is objectionable. Amazon does   not support or promote hatred or criminal acts, however, we do support   the right of every individual to make their own purchasing decisions.&quot;</p>
<p>Greaves had defended the book on Wednesday.</p>
<p>&quot;Every time you see them on television, they&#8217;re either murderers,   rapists or kidnappers, and, you know, that&#8217;s just not an accurate   presentation of that particular sexuality, it&#8217;s not.&quot; </p>
<p>Amazon.com did not immediately respond to a request for comment Thursday.</p>
<div class="sourceStyle">(KUSA-TV &copy; 2010 Multimedia Holdings Corporation)</div>
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		<title>&#8216;Straight-talk&#8217; about the Child Sexual Abuse Problem in the Boy Scouts of America</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Nov 2010 20:07:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p><strong>By Kelly Clark<br />
November 11, 2010</strong></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: 'Arial','sans-serif'; color: black;">Here is a hard-hitting  but highly accurate recap of the problem of child sexual abuse in the Boy  Scouts,&#160;triggered by <a title="http://www.oregonlive.com/portland/index.ssf/2010/04/jury_awards_millions_in_punati.html" href="http://www.oregonlive.com/portland/index.ssf/2010/04/jury_awards_millions_in_punati.html">our  trial</a>   in Portland this past Spring.&#160; The Boy Scouts</span>&#8230;</p>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>By Kelly Clark<br />
November 11, 2010</strong></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: 'Arial','sans-serif'; color: black;">Here is a hard-hitting  but highly accurate recap of the problem of child sexual abuse in the Boy  Scouts,&nbsp;triggered by <a title="http://www.oregonlive.com/portland/index.ssf/2010/04/jury_awards_millions_in_punati.html" href="http://www.oregonlive.com/portland/index.ssf/2010/04/jury_awards_millions_in_punati.html">our  trial</a>   in Portland this past Spring.&nbsp; The Boy Scouts of America has such    great potential, and has been such a positive influence in the lives of   so many  kids; but that cannot and should not erase the story of tens  of  thousands of  boys who were sexually abused in Scouting, while all  the  time the national  organizations knowingly stood by and did nothing  to  change its program to  protect its kids, and indeed even covered up  the  problem.&nbsp; </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: 'Arial','sans-serif'; color: black;">Have they learned  their <a title="http://www.oandc.com/media/entries/pedophile-files-lessons-boy-scouts-trial" href="http://www.oandc.com/media/entries/pedophile-files-lessons-boy-scouts-trial">lesson</a>?    And, of course, like too many institutions of trust where abuse   happens, BSA did  nothing to reach out to known&nbsp;child sexual abuse   victims and offer them help.&nbsp;  Those who are most committed to&nbsp;Scouting   should react&nbsp;most&nbsp;strongly to the&nbsp;utter  failure of BSA to live up to   its own ideals when it comes to the sexual abuse of  children in&nbsp;the Boy   Scouts.<o:p></o:p></span><span style="font-family: 'Arial','sans-serif'; color: black;"><o:p><br />
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: 'Arial','sans-serif'; color: blue;"><a href="http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/2821550/the_massive_boy_scout_sexual_abuse.html?cat=48"><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Read Here.</span></a><br />
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		<title>Amazon defends &#8216;Pedophile&#8217;s Guide&#8217;</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Nov 2010 17:39:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p><strong>By Kelly Clark<br />
November 11, 2010</strong></p>
<p>We  encourage you to contact Amazon and express your outrage at this.   This  deserves a full boycott if they don&#8217;t heed the message.<strong><br />
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<h3><strong>Amazon defends &#8216;Pedophile&#8217;s Guide&#8217;<br />
Another book</strong></h3><p>&#8230;</p>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>By Kelly Clark<br />
November 11, 2010</strong></p>
<p>We  encourage you to contact Amazon and express your outrage at this.   This  deserves a full boycott if they don&rsquo;t heed the message.<strong><br />
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<h3><strong>Amazon defends &#8216;Pedophile&#8217;s Guide&#8217;<br />
Another book protested in 2002 for advocating adult-child sex is still available on the site.</strong></h3>
<p><a target="_blank" href="http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/40112145/ns/technology_and_science-tech_and_gadgets/">http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/40112145/ns/technology_and_science-tech_and_gadgets/</a> </p>
<p><span class="attribution">By <span class="fn" itemprop="name" property="v:name vcard:fn">Helen A.S. Popkin<br />
November 10, 2010<br />
<a href="http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/40112145/ns/technology_and_science-tech_and_gadgets/">www.MSNBC.com</a></span></span></p>
<p class="i1"><span class="dateline">NEW YORK&nbsp;&mdash; </span>Amazon is selling  a  self-published book defending pedophiles, sparking discussions about  the  retailer&#8217;s obligation to vet items before they are sold in its  online  stores, and threats of boycott from Amazon customers if the book  is not  removed.</p>
<p>The book, &quot; <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Pedophiles-Guide-Love-Pleasure-ebook/product-reviews/B0049U4CF6/ref=dp_top_cm_cr_acr_txt?ie=UTF8&amp;showViewpoints=1" target="">The Pedophile&#8217;s Guide to Love and Pleasure: a Child-lover&#8217;s Code of Conduct</a>&quot;   by Philip R. Greaves II, offers advice to pedophiles afraid of  becoming  the center of retaliation. It is an electronic book available  for  Amazon.com Inc.&#8217;s Kindle e-reader.</p>
<p>The author&#8217;s description (misspellings included) reads:</p>
<p><em>&quot;This is my attempt to make pedophile situations safer for those   juveniles that find themselves involved in them, by establishing  certian  rules for these adults to follow. I hope to achieve this by  appealing  to the better nature of pedosexuals, with hope that their  doing so will  result in less hatred and perhaps liter sentences should  they ever be  caught.&quot;</em></p>
<p>Amazon issued a statement that will no doubt fuel the outraged   comments multiplying on the &quot;Pedophile&#8217;s Guide&quot; Amazon page. &quot;Amazon   believes it is censorship not to sell certain books simply because we or   others believe their message is objectionable,&quot; it reads. &quot;Amazon does   not support or promote hatred or criminal acts, however, we do support   the right of every individual to make their own purchasing decisions.&quot;</p>
<p>As a private company, Amazon has the right to sell whatever it wants   as long as it&#8217;s legal, and as such, offers books that cater to  Holocaust  deniers and other hate groups, as well as  <a href="http://www.examiner.com/dogs-in-national/dog-fighting-books-sold-at-amazon-com?cid=examiner-email" target="">graphic dog fighting and cock fighting videos</a>.   Adult (legal) pornography, while available in book and magazine form,   is not permitted in the Kindle e-reader store. This is possibly because   of its iTunes partnership with the notoriously porn-free Apple which   removed both &quot;Ulysses&quot; and the &quot;Kama Sutra&quot; from its own book store.</p>
<p><span class="inline internal slice-2 x-video">      <span class="icon"> 	 	 </span>     <a data="40127924" href="http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/40112145/ns/technology_and_science-tech_and_gadgets/#slice-2" class="internal">Video: Why was Amazon selling pedophilia guide? </a> (on this page) </span></p>
<p>A customer review on the &quot;Pedophile&#8217;s Guide&quot; Amazon page written by   &quot;Outraged Mother&quot; reads, &quot;The line of immorality is at best a zone with   ill defined boundaries. Whatever. This crosses into the unsavory and   shameful side of the zone. Take it down.&quot;</p>
<p>&quot;There is a point when, even though a company has a no-censorship   policy, that selling certain books is simply wrong,&quot; reads &quot;Disgusting   Abomination,&quot; another customer review. &quot;Not censoring is one thing, and I   commend that, but choosing to sell this book on a site that accessed  by  millions of people (including children) daily is reprehensible. This  is  a disgusting choice you have made, Amazon. Whatever money you are   making off this book can&#8217;t be worth the ire you are receiving for   selling it.&quot;</p>
<p>In an unexplained turn of events, more than 103 customer reviews   populated the &quot;Pedophile&#8217;s Guide&quot; page earlier today, when news first   broke about the book&#8217;s availability, but dropped down to less than 30 by   late afternoon. The number of reviews has since grown to over 60.</p>
<p>As news and outrage about the book spread, the first (presumed)   Internet jokester chimed in with &quot;A fantastic guide,&quot; the first five   star review:</p>
<p>&quot;I can&#8217;t thank Amazon enough for keeping this great work of   literature up for those of us with &#8216;special tastes.&#8217; The instructions   and images in the guide were extremely insightful and led to a wonderful   experience for both myself and my partner. Thank you for protecting   free speech, Amazon!&quot;</p>
<p>In 2002, Amazon.com cited the First Amendment as justification for   offering another book that advocates adult-child sex, &quot;Understanding   Loved Boys and Boylovers,&quot; by David L. Riegel. Further, the paperback   book  <a href="http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0967699703/qid=1033505282/sr=11-1/ref=sr_11_1/104-5652947-6503131" target="">is still available on the site</a>.</p>
<p>At that time,  <a href="http://www.wnd.com/?pageId=15397" target="">Amazon stated</a>,   &quot;Our goal is to support freedom of expression and to provide customers   with the broadest selection possible so they can find, discover, and  buy  any title they might be seeking.&quot;</p>
<p>An Amazon employee emphasized that &quot;Understanding Loved Boys and   Boylovers&quot; was &quot;not a &#8216;how-to&#8217; manual for molesting children. The author   simply expresses his point of view about what he feels are   misunderstood.&quot;</p>
<p>&quot;Pedophile&#8217;s Guide&quot; has also triggered mounting outrage on Twitter   and beyond. A chorus of Twitter users is calling for Amazon to pull the   book, and a campaign to push the hashtag #BoycottAmazon into Twitter&#8217;s   top trends is underway.</p>
<p>A keyword search for &quot;Amazon&quot; on the microblogging network reveals a   growing number of retweets featuring Amazon&#8217;s contact info and urges to   keep calling and e-mailing &quot;until the book is removed.&quot;</p>
<p><em>Associated Press contributed to this report.</em></p>
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		<title>A TWO-DAY OPRAH SHOW EVENT: 200 ADULT MEN WHO WERE MOLESTED COME FORWARD</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Nov 2010 16:01:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>A landmark Oprah Show event that&#8217;s never been done before.</strong><strong><br />
Two hundred men courageously stand together to say they were all molested.</strong><br />
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<p style="text-align: center;"><strong> TUNE in on NOVEMBER 5 and NOVEMBER&#160;12, 2010 to watch the show!</strong>&#8230;</p>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>A landmark Oprah Show event that&#8217;s never been done before.<strong><br />
Two hundred men courageously stand together to say they were all molested.</strong><br />
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<p style="text-align: center;"><strong> TUNE in on NOVEMBER 5 and NOVEMBER&nbsp;12, 2010 to watch the show!</strong></p>
<p>Matthias Conaty participated in this Oprah special as one of the two   hundred survivors of sexual abuse.&nbsp; He serves on the board of directors   of the National Association to Prevent Sexual Abuse of Children and is   the vice chair for the National Child Protection Training Center board   of directors.&nbsp; </p>
<p>As I sat in the audience of 200 courageous men at this groundbreaking   taping of The Oprah Winfrey Show, my thoughts and emotions were   difficult to contain. I felt my long journey of suffering and surviving   sexual abuse and finding ways to cope with the toxic shame and blame it   left behind had reached a turning point.&nbsp; Oprah pointed out what a   tremendous amount of energy we had gathered with the noble purpose of   shining a light of awareness on the pervasive, insidious human tragedy   of sexual abuse of children.</p>
<p>A major theme in the show was how men who were sexually abused as   children tend to stay silent. While this is also true of girls and   women, statics tell us males are even more likely not to come forward.   My transformation from victim of childhood sexual abuse to survivor   began when I finally found my voice and was able to speak up. Thankfully   I was believed. Family, friends and advocates supported me. I was able   to help my home state, Delaware, pass landmark statute of limitations   reform. This law, the Child Victim&rsquo;s Act, allowed 10 victims of the man   who abused me to be among the many victims who were able to speak up  and  move forward in their journeys of recovery. The community is now on   notice that there are dangerous predators among us. Rooting out   predators is critical because we must focus on preventing sexual abuse   from happening to children right now and in the future.</p>
<p>For me, the indelible image from the Oprah show will remain the entire   male survivor audience to holding up 8x10s of our childhood photos as   the program began. That simple act alone was a powerful statement made   by this landmark show.&nbsp; As adult men, we were standing up for the boys   we once were and representing the thousands of silent children and   wounded adults who are among us.</p>
<p>I am honored to work with the dedicated child protection professionals   and volunteers at the National Child Protection Training Center. In this   effort, I am able to turn a tragic part of my childhood into positive   action for others today and in the future. NCPTC has a unique vision  and  purpose. We have set the goal of ending child abuse in the United   States within three generations. Sounds idealistic, doesn&rsquo;t it? It   certainly is. It&rsquo;s idealistic and critically necessary. Our executive   director, Victor Vieth, has created an inspiring peer-reviewed plan of   action &mdash; Unto the Third Generation &mdash; that is concrete and unfolding   throughout the nation right now.</p>
<p>Since its inception, NCPTC has trained more than 40,000 front-line child   protection workers and forensic interviewers in all 50 states and 17   countries. Prevention education is also a major component of our   mission. Along with the prevention specialists of the Jacob Wetterling   Resource Center, NCPTC educates families and communities to prevent the   exploitation of children. Prevention is delivered to adults, children,   teens and community coalitions or agencies. Please join us in this   grassroots movement to ensure minors are never again treated as objects   and that all children are afforded the personal safety and dignity they   deserve.</p>
<p>Matthias Conaty of Wilmington, Del., helped to lead the Coalition to Pass the  <a target="_blank" href="http://www.trailblz.info/napsac/gateway/178.642098.aspx" title="http://www.trailblz.info/napsac/gateway/178.642098.aspx">Child Victim&rsquo;s Act</a>,   which successfully lobbied the Delaware Legislature to repeal the  civil  statute of limitations and enacted a two-year civil window for  victims  of childhood sexual abuse in Delaware. He also serves on the  board of  directors of the National Association to Prevent Sexual Abuse  of  Children and as the vice chair for the National Child Protection   Training Center board of directors.</p>
<p>NCPTC and NAPSAC are nonprofit organizations dedicated to ending child   abuse through education, training, awareness, prevention, advocacy and   the pursuit of justice.&nbsp; NCPTC promotes reformation of current training   practices by providing an educational curriculum to current and future   front-line child protection professionals around the nation so that  they  will be prepared to recognize and report the abuse of a child.&nbsp;  You can  make donations to NCPTC&mdash;a nonprofit 501(c)(3) organization, or  NAPSAC&mdash;a  nonprofit 501(c)(4) organization.&nbsp; All donations received will  help  fund services and programs of the organizations.&nbsp; Make a donation  to <a target="_blank" href="http://www.trailblz.info/napsac/gateway/180.642098.aspx" title="http://www.trailblz.info/napsac/gateway/180.642098.aspx">NCPTC</a>&nbsp;or <a target="_blank" href="http://www.trailblz.info/napsac/gateway/181.642098.aspx" title="http://www.trailblz.info/napsac/gateway/181.642098.aspx">NAPSAC</a> today. </p>
<p>&nbsp; <font face="Calibri"><a target="_blank" href="http://www.trailblz.info/napsac/gateway/179.642098.aspx" title="http://www.trailblz.info/napsac/gateway/179.642098.aspx">Click here</a> </font>to learn more about Oprah&rsquo;s two-day show event.</p>
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		<title>Child abuse and crime victims groups file amicus brief urging the Oregon Supreme Court to help break the cycle of secrecy in child sexual abuse cases.</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p><strong>By Kelly Clark<br />
October 18, 2010</strong></p>
<p><em>Stay tuned for more commentary to follow. </em></p>
<p>Child abuse and crime victims groups file amicus brief urging the Oregon Supreme Court to help break the cycle of secrecy in child sexual abuse&#8230;</p>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>By Kelly Clark<br />
October 18, 2010</strong></p>
<p><em>Stay tuned for more commentary to follow. </em></p>
<p>Child abuse and crime victims groups file amicus brief urging the Oregon Supreme Court to help break the cycle of secrecy in child sexual abuse cases.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.oandc.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/10/amicus_brief.pdf"><strong>Read the brief here!</strong></a></p>
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		<title>Child Sexual Abuse Reports in Kenya Mirror Sex Abuse Patterns in Boy Scouts of America.</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 11 Oct 2010 16:24:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p><strong>By Kelly Clark<br />
October 11, 2010</strong></p>
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The news that over 1000 teachers in Kenya have been dismissed  in recent years for sexually abusing girls is stunning.&#160; <a href="http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/world-africa-11492499 ">Read The Article Here.</a></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">No matter how long&#8230;</p>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>By Kelly Clark<br />
October 11, 2010</strong></p>
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The news that over 1000 teachers in Kenya have been dismissed  in recent years for sexually abusing girls is stunning.&nbsp; <a href="http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/world-africa-11492499 ">Read The Article Here.</a></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">No matter how long I do this work, I never get used    to such things&mdash;and  especially not to such numbers.&nbsp; If you assume    that, on average, each teacher  involved had 10 victims&mdash;a conservative    number, according to psychological  literature&mdash;there are at least  10,000   girls affected.&nbsp; But wait: we know that  only a handful ever  get  caught  or reported: 10% would be a very high number.&nbsp;  But even if  it  is that,  there would be as many as 100,000 girls abused.&nbsp; Again,   the  problem  seems to be of staggering proportions.<o:p></o:p><o:p><br />
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<p class="MsoNormal">This dynamic is similar to what we learned in the    sex abuse  trial of the Boy Scouts in Portland this past spring.&nbsp; We  had   over 1200  &ldquo;Perversion files&rdquo; introduced into evidence, all  concerning   Boy Scout leaders  sexually abusing boys, just from  1965-85.&nbsp; Expert   testimony established that,  for such an environment,  each such Boy   Scout leader would have, on average,  10-20 victims,  and that, perhaps   10% of all sex abuse in the Boy Scouts &nbsp;would  ever  be reported&mdash;a very   optimistic number, the experts agreed. &nbsp;But if you  do  that math, it   means that somewhere between120,000 and 240,000 boys  were sexually    abused in Boy Scouting, JUST from 1965-85. &nbsp;And we  know that the Boy   Scouts have  been keeping their &ldquo;confidential  Perversion files&rdquo; on child   sexual abusers since  1925.&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp;As I have  said repeatedly since the   trial, I am personally convinced  that the  problem of child sexual abuse   in the Boy Scouts is at least as  serious,  if not worse, than the   sexual abuse problem in the Catholic   Church.<o:p></o:p><o:p></o:p></p>
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		<title>9th Circuit Strikes Down Oregon Child Pornography Law as Unconstitutional.</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 22 Sep 2010 12:48:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>By Kelly Clark<br />
September 2010</p>
<p><strong>Read here: </strong><a href="http://www.latimes.com/news/nationworld/nation/la-na-oregon-pornography-20100921,0,6485856.story?track=rss&#38;utm_source=feedburner&#38;utm_medium=feed&#38;utm_campaign=Feed:+latimes/news/nationworld/nation+%28L.A.+Times+-+National+News%29"><strong>Oregon sex-literature laws ruled unconstitutional </strong></a></p>
<p>This is what I meant  when I said, in a 2008 debate with the ACLU&#8217;c  Charlie Hinkle at the City Club  that we in Oregon have&#8230;</p>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>By Kelly Clark<br />
September 2010</p>
<p><strong>Read here: </strong><a href="http://www.latimes.com/news/nationworld/nation/la-na-oregon-pornography-20100921,0,6485856.story?track=rss&amp;utm_source=feedburner&amp;utm_medium=feed&amp;utm_campaign=Feed:+latimes/news/nationworld/nation+%28L.A.+Times+-+National+News%29"><strong>Oregon sex-literature laws ruled unconstitutional </strong></a></p>
<p>This is what I meant  when I said, in a 2008 debate with the ACLU&#8217;c  Charlie Hinkle at the City Club  that we in Oregon have &quot;too much free  speech.&quot; When we cannot pass common-sense  laws aimed at protecting  children because of wholly abstract &quot;free speech&quot;  limits, then we have  &quot;too much free speech,&quot; and judges run a risk of&nbsp;so  alienating the  public, so separating the &quot;constitutional sense&quot; from the   &quot;common&nbsp;sense&quot; of the people, that&nbsp;both the courts and the constitution  will  lose legitimacy with the average citizen.</p>
<p>My full comments can be  fou<span>nd at <a target="_blank" rel="nofollow" href="http://www.kellyclarkattorney.com/about-kelly-clark/curriculum-vitae/publications-presentations/constitutions-courts-and-the-common-sense.does-oregon-have-too-much-free-speech" title="http://www.kellyclarkattorney.com/about-kelly-clark/curriculum-vitae/publications-presentations/"><strong><span title="http://www.kellyclarkattorney.com/about-kelly-clark/curriculum-vitae/publications-presentations/">here.</span></strong></a> <br />
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		<title>ON THE POPE&#8217;S VISIT TO BRITAIN THIS WEEK.</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Sep 2010 19:57:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p><strong>By Kelly Clar<span style="font-weight: bold;">k<br />
</span><b style="">September 13, 2010</b></strong><b style=""><br />
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<p class="MsoNormal"><i style="">&#34;However, it is the scandal over paedophile priests that will plague the Pope throughout his visit.</i><i style=""><br />
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>By Kelly Clar<span style="font-weight: bold;">k<br />
</span><b style="">September 13, 2010</b></strong><b style=""><o:p></o:p><br />
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<p class="MsoNormal"><i style="">&quot;However, it is the scandal over paedophile priests that will plague the Pope throughout his visit.<o:p></o:p></i><i style=""><br />
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<p class="MsoNormal"><i style="">&#8230;&quot;But while the Pope has expressed contrition over the revelations, even senior Catholics in <st1:country-region w:st="on">Britain</st1:country-region> believe the <st1:country-region w:st="on"><st1:place w:st="on">Vatican</st1:place></st1:country-region> has not handled its response to the crisis well.<o:p></o:p></i></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><i style="">&#8216;The <st1:country-region w:st="on">Vatican</st1:country-region> has got itself into a very defensive position, which probably inhibits the positive initiatives we could be taking,&#8217; Vincent Nichols, Archbishop of <st1:city w:st="on"><st1:place w:st="on">Westminster</st1:place></st1:city>, said recently. &#8216;The Holy See can do a lot better in its understanding of how the media perceive things and how important those perceptions are.&#8217;</p>
<p>&#8230;&quot;The <st1:country-region w:st="on"><st1:place w:st="on">Vatican</st1:place></st1:country-region>&#8216;s attitude appears to remain one of minimising the wave of criticism focused on Pope Benedict&#8217;s handling of the crisis over paedophile priests. Complaints were &#8216;excessive amplifications&#8217; with &#8216;an echo superior to that which is the true sensitivity of the population&#8217;, Federico Lombardi, spokesman for the <st1:country-region w:st="on"><st1:place w:st="on">Vatican</st1:place></st1:country-region>, said on Friday.&quot;<o:p></o:p></i><i style=""><br />
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<p class="MsoNormal"><i style="">&#8211;Financial Times, Sept 13, 2010.<o:p></o:p></i></p>
<p>&quot;Excessive amplifications?&quot;&nbsp; Really?&nbsp; Really.&nbsp;&nbsp; Compare this response, so typical of the <st1:country-region w:st="on">Vatican</st1:country-region>, with that of the <st1:place w:st="on"><st1:placename w:st="on">Belgian</st1:placename>  <st1:placetype w:st="on">Church</st1:placetype></st1:place> in today&#8217;s NYT&#8211; which really seems to get that the abuse scandals there are a very big deal and must be dealt with in an upfront and uncompromising way.&nbsp; See article <a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2010/09/14/world/europe/14belgium.html?ref=global-home ">here</a>.</p>
<p>Tragically, the<st1:placename w:st="on"> American</st1:placename> Church&#8217;s response has been and continues to be closer to that of the Vatican than that of Belgium.</p>
<p><st1:country-region w:st="on"><st1:place w:st="on"></st1:place></st1:country-region></p>
<p>It didn&#8217;t have to be this way. Way back in the mid-1980&#8242;s, after the cases involving Fr Gil Gauthe of Louisiana came to light, the National Bishops Conference commissioned a study by three men whom they trusted as being experts in the field, one of whom was a young priest and canon lawyer, then&nbsp;in the Washington DC Vatican embassy, with an obviously&nbsp;bright future, Fr Thomas Doyle.&nbsp; The study came back with an unpopular conclusion: the Church has a major child abuse problem on its hands, and, unless the Church comes forward quickly and aggressively to acknowledge it, seek out the victims and get them help, the Church could be facing huge liability. How huge?&nbsp; Perhaps as much as a HALF A BILLION DOLLARS in liability, the study concluded.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Well, the report was shelved, and Doyle&#8217;s bright career was derailed.&nbsp; (He&nbsp;ended up as a longtime priest&nbsp;in the Air Force, and has become the leading priest expert in the nation on the abuse problem, testifying hundreds of times for victims in court and depositions. He is one of the most spiritually courageous men I know.)</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">But fast forward twenty years, and the <st1:place w:st="on"><st1:placename w:st="on">American</st1:placename> <st1:placetype w:st="on">Church</st1:placetype></st1:place> has been badly damaged by their own failure to do the right thing back in 1985.&nbsp; SEVERAL Billions of dollars paid out in judgments and settlements&#8211; just in the <st1:country-region w:st="on">US&#8211;</st1:country-region> plus&nbsp;several dioceses bankrupt, a Cardinal from <st1:city w:st="on"><st1:place w:st="on">Boston</st1:place></st1:city> forced to resign, and the image of the Church in tatters.&nbsp;</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">All because the Bishops thought the Doyle report was&#8211;to borrow from the words of Fr Lombardi above&#8211;&quot;excessive amplifications.&quot;</p>
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		<title>The Pedophile Files &#8211; Lessons from The Boy Scouts Trial</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 05 May 2010 15:20:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p><strong>An Open Letter to Youth Organizations, Churches, and Schools.<br />
By Kelly Clark<br />
September 1, 2010</strong></p>
<p>After six weeks of trial against the Boy Scouts of America&#8212;resulting  in, as far as I know, the largest child abuse verdict in&#8230;</p>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>An Open Letter to Youth Organizations, Churches, and Schools.<br />
By Kelly Clark<br />
September 1, 2010</strong></p>
<p>After six weeks of trial against the Boy Scouts of America&mdash;resulting  in, as far as I know, the largest child abuse verdict in American  history on behalf of one plaintiff&mdash;I am being asked repeatedly to blog  about the lessons from the trial.&nbsp; There are of course many, and some of  the most important have to do with Kerry Lewis, my client and now  friend, who stood so courageously and told his story so clearly.&nbsp; But  the lessons from the other end of the evidence&mdash;about what happens when  good youth organizations forget their first principles and react to  allegations of child abuse by keeping secrets&mdash;is what I want to write  about first. So here is an open letter to youth organizations; here is  what I hope they learn:<o:p></o:p></p>
<p><em><strong>Dear Youth Organization:</strong></em><o:p></o:p></p>
<p>I write this to you because you have taken on the great task of  working with children.&nbsp; Whether you are a school, a church, an athletic  league, a dance company or a day care center, whether you are a public  or private entity, whether you are a new organization or have been  around for decades, you are doing good work. You are helping our young  people to grow up, and you are doing your best. No doubt.&nbsp; So I  respectfully offer some of the lessons of the long trial in Portland,  Oregon against the Boy Scouts.&nbsp; Please learn these lessons, so that kids  will be safe and so that you don&rsquo;t make the same mistakes that too many  other youth organizations have made.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p>So, while it is all fresh in our minds, let&rsquo;s consider the lessons  from this trial against the Boy Scouts of America &#8211; once America&rsquo;s most  trusted youth organization &#8211; as the evidence came in to a very attentive  and unusually well-educated jury:<o:p></o:p></p>
<p><strong>1. &nbsp;You Cannot Keep Secrets About Hidden Dangers to Children.</strong><o:p></o:p></p>
<p>Youth organizations must do everything feasible to protect children,  and cannot keep secrets about hidden dangers to children.&rdquo;&nbsp; This simple  theme was the foundation for our entire case. It seemed to us&mdash;my  co-counsel Paul Mones and I&#8211; to be a fair and general principle to  which any youth organization would agree.&nbsp; We had planned to go from  that principle to showing that BSA had not adhered to the common sense  rules.&nbsp;&nbsp; Yet numerous times during the trial we were stunned to hear  witnesses for the BSA who would refuse to acknowledge this basic idea.  Not refuse to acknowledge that the BSA violated this idea&#8211; we expected  that.&nbsp; But refuse to acknowledge the basic principle itself!&nbsp;&nbsp; The  message given to the jury by such quibbling was that the BSA was playing  word games and putting qualifiers on the question of safety to  children.&nbsp;</p>
<p>The fact is, the BSA has known for decades that it had a serious  child abuse problem. They kept interior confidential files on the  problem since the 1920&rsquo;s, and certainly by the 1950&rsquo;s and 60&rsquo;s knew that  the thousands of files (the evidence was that by 1985 the BSA had at  least 3000- 4000 pedophile files)&mdash;representing thousands or tens of  thousands of children abused&#8211;&nbsp; meant that their program was being  targeted by pedophiles.&nbsp;</p>
<p>Yet, the BSA still refused to admit in open court the very obvious  truth that it had, and has, a child abuse problem.&nbsp; Several key  witnesses repeatedly argued about or qualified the simple phrase  &ldquo;problem&rdquo; in response to direct questions. It was like listening to an  alcoholic or addict refuse to admit that he or she &ldquo;has a problem&rdquo; and  needs help, when everyone around sees the chaos and insanity of  substance addiction.&nbsp; The jury saw this fierce and calculated denial of  the problem, and quite apparently did not like it.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p>So the message is simple: youth organizations cannot keep secrets  about hidden dangers to children. Parents and the community have a right  to know if there is a risk to children.&nbsp; You would give a clear warning  about food poisoning among your kids, or about a dangerous crosswalk  near your building.&nbsp; The fact that your warning might have to be about  an embarrassing problem with child abuse within your organization does  not change the obligation to warn. Not even for the esteemed Boy Scouts  of America.&nbsp; That is one of the key lessons of this trial.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p><strong>2. As your knowledge increases, so does your responsibility.&nbsp; </strong></p>
<p>Oregon law, as is true of the law in most states&mdash;as well as common  sense&#8211; says that whether a person acted &ldquo;reasonably&rdquo; under the  circumstances depends upon what the person knew about the dangers at  issue.&nbsp; A seaside hotel owner who knows that people regularly get caught  in dangerous ocean undertows right in front of the hotel has a  different obligation to warn guests than that same hotel owner might  have to warn about a freak and unforeseeable storm.&nbsp; It is just common  sense.&nbsp; So, as the BSA over the years and decades gathered its knowledge  about the pedophile problem within Scouting, it was no longer good  enough simply to keep a list of the pedophiles so they could not come  back into the organization.&nbsp; At some point, the BSA had an obligation to  take and use that information to make the organization safer. If the  BSA headquarters had been filled with $100 bills instead of the names of  little boys, and 4000 times over a 5 decade period thieves had broken  in to steal money, the BSA would not simply have kept a list of the  thieves to prevent them from getting into the building. The BSA would  have changed its security systems to prevent new thieves from getting  in!&nbsp; That simple analogy perfectly describes the BSA&rsquo;s response to its  child abuse problem. <o:p></o:p></p>
<p>So the second lesson for youth organizations from the BSA trial is  painfully obvious&#8211; as your knowledge increases so does your  responsibility.&nbsp; Is it a good thing to keep data about your safety  issues?&nbsp; Of course. Is it smart to make sure that a known pedophile  cannot get back into your organization?&nbsp; Obviously.&nbsp; But that, in and of  itself, is not enough to fulfill your duty to protect children.&nbsp; You  must look at what changes are necessary to make the organization safer.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p><strong>3. You must always put the safety of children ahead of the interests of the organization</strong>.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p>If there is a common thread that I have seen in advocating for child  abuse victims against a variety of institutions of trust&mdash;churches,  schools, foster care agencies, and now the BSA&mdash;it is this:&nbsp; there seems  to be an idea that the work of the organization is so important, its  goals so noble, that there might be times when it is necessary to &ldquo;keep a  lid on this problem.&rdquo;&nbsp; This, of course, is the misguided historical  response that produced the ongoing scandals in the Catholic Church.&nbsp; But  it goes way beyond that particular institution of trust.&nbsp; So many youth  organizations have great goals and purposes.&nbsp; They do good work. They  help children and help the community.&nbsp; And so, when trouble comes along,  their first instinct is to protect the work. And if this means keeping a  potentially embarrassing problem quiet&mdash;even at the risk of keeping  secrets about child abuse&mdash;they reactively take that route.&nbsp; While that  may be an understandable reaction, it is always disastrous, sooner or  later.&nbsp; The old idea that &ldquo;the ends justify the means&rdquo; can never apply  to a sluggish response to child abuse, and too many good organizations  fall prey to the temptation to protect the organization.&nbsp;&nbsp; The safety of  children, and whatever it takes to accomplish that&mdash;including blaring  trumpet warnings if that is necessary&mdash;must always take precedence over  the reputation of the organization.&nbsp; That is lesson 3 from the BSA  trial.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p><strong>4. When it goes bad, accept responsibility and apologize.</strong><o:p></o:p></p>
<p>It is a timeless truth that runs through all societies at all times  and places, but especially through the religions and ethical systems of  Western culture: apologies heal.&nbsp; This truth is central to our legal  system as well, even to the point that it is an expectation in the  criminal justice system that someone who is found to have broken the  community&rsquo;s rules will apologize&mdash;in part, at least because we understand  that it will be helpful for the victim.&nbsp; But it is not limited to the  criminal justice courts: we expect apologies from those who have harmed  others, and those who have knowingly failed to protect those in their  care&mdash;especially institutions of trust such as churches, schools and  youth organizations like the Boy Scouts.&nbsp;</p>
<p>And all this is especially true for victims of child sexual abuse,  who so often believe that, somehow the abuse was their fault, that they  should have done something to stop it, or they should have immediately  told someone&mdash;all beliefs which the mental health professionals tell us  are almost universal in child abuse victims.&nbsp; So when they receive an  acknowledgement of responsibility and a sincere apology from those  responsible for their abuse&#8212; the perpetrator of the abuse, an  institution that could have prevented the abuse, or both&mdash;it is  incredibly healing and empowering.&nbsp; Suddenly, in one moment, the  survivor realizes that his or her core beliefs about this life-altering  event&mdash;&ldquo;it was my fault; I am fundamentally flawed because of what I did  and did not do about this&rdquo;&mdash;are all wrong, and that the person or  institution who is factually and morally responsible for the abuse is  owning up to what happened. The weight and burden of this wrong, which  has been on the shoulders of the victim for so many years or even  decades, is lifted off of the victim and placed where it belongs.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p>This is such basic common sense and human experience that it is hard  to understand why institutions of trust&mdash;such as the Boy Scouts, the  Catholic Church, and others&mdash; are so reluctant to make this simple and  profound gesture.&nbsp; Of course, it involves the acceptance of  responsibility, and too often that acceptance is slow to come for an  organization that prides itself on the nobility of its purpose. It is,  after all, hard for someone who thinks he is a hero, or divinely  inspired, to admit that he failed utterly in one of his prime  responsibilities and is now being called to account for it.&nbsp; We have  seen this for at least a decade in watching the Catholic Church come to  grips with the magnitude of its child abuse problem&mdash;to accept that it  even had a particular problem, to acknowledge that the Church badly  failed in its historic response to that problem, and to make unequivocal  apologies to those who were damaged by those failures.&nbsp;</p>
<p>This same dynamic of denial seems to be true for the BSA&mdash;which, apart  from the specific facts of this case in Portland, continues to deny  publicly that it has historically had a serious child abuse  problem&mdash;different both in type and frequency from that in society at  large.&nbsp; Not once during the decades that we have litigated against the  BSA, in dozens of cases, whether settled or tried to a jury,&nbsp; has the  BSA offered even a simple apology to any of our clients.&nbsp; And we know of  no circumstance in which the BSA ever has issued an apology to the  thousands of boys who were abused by Scout leaders. <o:p></o:p></p>
<p>I want to say in conclusion, again, that the Boy Scouts of America is  a great organization. Our boys need good, strong role models to learn  the art and habits of living an honorable life as they move into  manhood.&nbsp; Lord knows our society needs more young men of integrity,  purpose and faith.&nbsp; BSA is in a position as it enters its second century  to play a unique role in shaping young men.&nbsp; It is an awesome  responsibility.&nbsp; We can only hope that the leadership of this  organization steps back, moves past the shock and shame of a jury&rsquo;s  stern rebuke, and takes stock of what is truly all about.&nbsp; If it does,  then it can move to reclaim society&rsquo;s trust and admiration. If it does  not, if it continues to shoot the messengers&mdash;lawyers, plaintiffs,  juries, the news media&#8211; then it will lose its credibility, it will  become a shell of what it once was and again could be, and it will  eventually slide into irrelevance. </p>
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		<description><![CDATA[<h3>French &#8216;Minister of Culture&#8217; Frederic Mitterrand Finds Childhood Sexual Abuse Still Not Acceptable&#8212;Even to &#8216;Sophisticated&#8217; European Morals.</h3>
<h4>By Kelly Clark, Child Sexual Abuse Attorney<br />
Portland, Ore.</h4>
<p>American political junkies often use a phrase to describe a politician&#8217;s secure standing&#8230;</p>]]></description>
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<h4>By Kelly Clark, Child Sexual Abuse Attorney<br />
Portland, Ore.</h4>
<p>American political junkies often use a phrase to describe a politician&rsquo;s secure standing with the electorate: &ldquo;He&rsquo;s a shoe-in&mdash;that is, unless he gets caught sleeping with a dead woman or a live boy.&rdquo;&nbsp;&nbsp; In other words,&nbsp; Senator Bulbousnose will surely win, unless, that is, he steps across the unspoken final lines of decency we all know about&mdash;necrophilia and pedophilia being two&nbsp; of them.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p>So, there are two things that amaze me about the unfolding scandal in France: first, that the Minister of Culture, Frederic Mitterrand, would think that his lurid book accounts of &ldquo;paying for boys&rdquo; in Thailand could fly under the radar and not matter to his public career; and, second, that it almost did.</p>
<p>In case you haven&rsquo;t read about this unbelievable story, here is a quote from the Times Online, dateline October 8:</p>
<p><i style="">&ldquo;President Sarkozy&rsquo;s new Culture Minister, Fr&eacute;d&eacute;ric Mitterrand, was struggling to save his name and possibly his job last night amid a storm over his past accounts of paying &ldquo;boys&rdquo; for sex. The nephew of the late President Mitterrand, who is openly gay, was thrown on the defensive after opposition politicians homed in on a memoir in which he described his delight in visiting brothels in Bangkok. <o:p></o:p></i></p>
<p><i style="">&ldquo;I got into the habit of paying for boys &#8230; The profusion of young, very attractive and immediately available boys put me in a state of desire that I no longer needed to restrain or hide,&rdquo; he wrote. The autobiography, La mauvaise vie (The Bad Life), was a critically acclaimed bestseller in 2005 and Mr Mitterrand, 62, a popular television presenter, was praised for his honesty. It rebounded on him this week after he leapt to the defence of Roman Polanski, the filmmaker, who was arrested in Switzerland for extradition to face a Los Angeles court for having sex with a girl aged 13.&rdquo; <o:p></o:p></i></p>
<p>Now, let&rsquo;s ignore the obvious about-face he has done in the last day or so, trying to play down what he has written. After all denying the obvious is what politicians do&#8211; although trying to say that admitting that he paid for sex with boys doesn&rsquo;t mean that he paid for sex with boys may set a new standard.</p>
<p>No, I want to ponder the two aspects of all this that I mentioned above.&nbsp; First, how did someone who wrote this&mdash;in 2005&mdash;get&nbsp; appointed to a high post in a European government?&nbsp; Surely he did not think no one would notice: he is, after all, the highly visible nephew of former President Francios Mitterrand and a TV personality in his own right.&nbsp; No, it seems he was doing what a lot of celebrities do, which is to write a lurid autobiography &ldquo;revealing all&rdquo; to boost sales through shock value.&nbsp; Surely he intended the world to know that he was tantalized and hooked by the Asian sex trade. He wanted people to know&hellip;</p>
<p>No, what is amazing to me is that he thought that this admission would shock people in no different way than, say, talking about drunken nights on the town or lurid sexual escapades of the kind we have grown used to with celebrities.&nbsp; But that&nbsp; he thought he could just cruise on in as Minster for Culture&mdash;that&rsquo;s so rich in irony I can&rsquo;t even know where to start&mdash; after admitting to deep-seated pedophilic behaviour is just stupefying. I don&rsquo;t know whether this says more about the man&rsquo;s flawed political judgment,&nbsp; or about how far Western standards for decency have fallen.&nbsp; After all, let&rsquo;s not forget, that this book was published 4 years ago and up til now there had been no blow up.&nbsp;&nbsp; He actually thought he could get away with it.</p>
<p>This brings me to the second source of amazement&mdash;he almost did. In fact, had it not been for the controversy over Switzerland&rsquo;s arrest and the US&rsquo;s extradition demands of filmmaker Roman Polanski for sexually abusing a 13 year old girl, we old-fashioned types in the US might not ever have heard about Mitterrand&rsquo;s pedophilia.&nbsp; But the fact that Europe heard about it and there was no uproar for nearly five years surely says something fundamental about the way those &lsquo;sophisticated&rsquo; societies think (the condemnation by the <i style="">avant garde</i> of the US in fashionable circles for Polanski&rsquo;s arrest is no less indicative).&nbsp; Is it really okay for a major public personality now become public minister to have engaged in pedophilia?&nbsp; Note that there is no indication that he has acknowledged in sorrow the wrongness of his behavior, sought help, amended his way of life.&nbsp; This is not a story about a guy who couldn&rsquo;t find forgiveness when he asked for it. This is about a guy who didn&rsquo;t&mdash;apparently didn&rsquo;t&mdash;even realize that what he had done was fundamentally wrong&hellip; even by the standards of Senator Bulbousnose&hellip; even by standards of European &lsquo;sophistication.&rsquo;&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>
<p>Boy&mdash;no pun intended&mdash;did Mitterand get the surprise of his life. There are still some things that politicians, even in Europe,&nbsp; can&rsquo;t do. Thank God.</p>
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